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Stop Being a Control Freak: Why Delegation is Your Secret Weapon
Picture this: you're working until 9 PM again, your partner's giving you the look, and your inbox has 47 unread emails from this afternoon alone. Meanwhile, your team's sitting around waiting for you to approve things they could've sorted themselves three hours ago.
Sound familiar?
After 18 years consulting for everyone from stressed-out tradies to C-suite executives in Melbourne and Sydney, I've watched brilliant people torpedo their own success because they can't let go of the reins. And honestly? I used to be one of them.
The Day I Nearly Lost My Best Client (And My Sanity)
Back in 2019, I was managing a massive workplace training rollout for a mining company in Perth. Thought I could handle everything myself – the content development, stakeholder meetings, even the bloody catering arrangements. By week three, I was making mistakes a first-year graduate wouldn't make. Nearly lost the contract because I couldn't delegate the simple stuff.
That was my wake-up call.
Here's the uncomfortable truth: if you're not delegating, you're not leading. You're just an expensive micromanager with a fancy title.
Why We're Terrible at Letting Go
Most Aussie business owners I work with have the same problem. We've got this cultural thing about "rolling up our sleeves" and "getting our hands dirty." Which is great when you're starting out. Absolute disaster when you're trying to scale.
The real reasons we don't delegate? Fear and ego.
Fear that it won't get done properly. Fear that we'll lose control. Fear that people will realise we're not actually indispensable. (Spoiler alert: none of us are.)
And ego? That little voice saying "I can do it faster myself." Sure, mate. You can also mow your own lawn, service your own car, and do your own tax return. Doesn't mean you should.
The Delegation Sweet Spot
About 68% of successful executives spend less than 40% of their time on tasks that could be delegated. The rest of us? We're drowning in stuff that someone else could handle better.
I learned this from watching how Skill Pulse approaches delegation skills training – they've cracked the code on identifying what should stay on your plate versus what needs to go.
The magic happens when you start thinking like a business owner, not a busy owner. There's a difference.
What Actually Works (And What Doesn't)
Start with the stupid stuff. I mean genuinely stupid. Email scheduling, basic research, appointment booking. If it doesn't require your specific expertise or relationships, it goes.
I had one client – successful accountant in Adelaide – who was personally responding to every single client inquiry. Every. Single. One. We set up a simple system where his assistant handled initial responses, and he only jumped in for complex technical questions. Freed up 12 hours a week immediately.
Stop with the detailed instructions. This one's counterintuitive, but hear me out. When you give someone a 47-point checklist for a simple task, you're not helping them – you're creating dependency. Give them the outcome you want, not the step-by-step process.
Works with your personal life too. My missus used to give me shopping lists that looked like military operations manuals. Now she just tells me what we're cooking this week, and I figure out the rest. Much better for everyone involved.
The Home Front Revolution
Delegation isn't just a work thing. Your personal life needs it too.
Stop doing everything at home. I don't care if you think you're faster at laundry or better at organising the kids' schedules. You're robbing your family of the chance to step up, and burning yourself out in the process.
We started giving our teenagers actual responsibility – not just chores, but real decision-making power over their own schedules and commitments. Guess what? They rose to the occasion. Who would've thought?
The Technology Trap
Everyone's obsessed with delegation apps and project management software. Half the time, it's overkill. You don't need a $50-a-month platform to tell someone to handle your calendar bookings.
Keep it simple. Phone calls still work. Face-to-face conversations are revolutionary. WhatsApp groups can manage most family logistics without turning it into a corporate project.
That said, emotional intelligence training makes a massive difference when you're learning to communicate what you actually need from people. Can't delegate effectively if you can't articulate what success looks like.
The Perfectionist's Nightmare
Here's where I probably lose half of you: delegate the important stuff too.
I know, I know. "But what if they mess it up?"
They will. Initially. That's the price of growth.
I watched a tradie friend of mine nearly have a breakdown trying to handle both the technical work and all the customer relationship management. Once he trained his apprentice to handle client check-ins and progress updates, his stress levels dropped by half. Yes, there were a few awkward conversations early on. But within six months, clients were specifically asking to speak with the apprentice because he'd become genuinely good at it.
What Nobody Tells You About the First Month
Delegation feels like more work initially. You're training people, explaining things multiple times, and probably fixing a few mistakes. This is normal. Power through it.
Set yourself a rule: if you find yourself taking something back because "it's easier to do it myself," you've failed at delegation, not them at execution.
The Results Speak for Themselves
Companies with effective delegation practices see 33% higher revenue growth. That's not made-up consultant speak – that's measurable business impact.
On a personal level? I haven't worked a weekend in two years. My team handles 80% of what used to be "CEO-only" tasks. And the business runs better than when I was trying to control everything.
Your family will thank you too. Kids who grow up with real responsibility become more capable adults. Partners who aren't constantly picking up your slack become happier partners.
Start Tomorrow, Not Next Month
Pick three things you're going to delegate this week. Not eventually. This week.
One work task that someone else could learn. One household responsibility that's been sitting on your plate too long. One personal commitment that you could train someone else to handle.
Time management training helps with identifying what those tasks should be, but don't overthink it. Start with something small and build the muscle.
The Bottom Line
Delegation isn't about being lazy. It's about being strategic. Every hour you spend on something someone else could do is an hour you're not spending on something only you can do.
And here's the kicker – most of the stuff we're holding onto so tightly? Someone else would probably do it better anyway. They just need the chance to prove it.
Stop being the bottleneck in your own life. Your future self will thank you for it.
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